Let's talk about praise. It is extremely important for both adult and child. But very often parents forget about it, and sparing in his praise. And for good reason. The more you praise a child, the more motivate him to commit good deeds.
But as the right to praise your child to praise did not develop into arrogance? child is totally dependent on his parents, he catches the mood of the mother and sensitively identifies it notes the positive and negative.
If the mother is generous with affection and praise, the child may decide that it simply did not like. Imagine you are dependent on a man whose love of my mind. And this man you are constantly criticized and condemned.
What is the first thought comes to mind? Chances are, you decide that you do not need this man, because not good enough. That's a child, he simply does not believe in the love of parents who are constantly negative estimate of his actions.
Even without deeds, and his own. If in a family dominated by an estimated ratio, the child gets serious psychological trauma. He is unsure of himself, preprogrammed to fail all their actions.
The child will constantly compare themselves to others and seeing the superiority of others, fall into despair. preschool children need praise and often exaggerated. Do not be afraid to instill pride in the child, to praise for good deeds and qualities.
Praise and flattery - two different things. It was the last to be feared. You may also want to talk to children about pride. Pride - a mortal sin, it is necessary to explain to the child. He should understand that pride is contrary to God.
But as the right to praise your child to praise did not develop into arrogance? child is totally dependent on his parents, he catches the mood of the mother and sensitively identifies it notes the positive and negative.
If the mother is generous with affection and praise, the child may decide that it simply did not like. Imagine you are dependent on a man whose love of my mind. And this man you are constantly criticized and condemned.
What is the first thought comes to mind? Chances are, you decide that you do not need this man, because not good enough. That's a child, he simply does not believe in the love of parents who are constantly negative estimate of his actions.
Even without deeds, and his own. If in a family dominated by an estimated ratio, the child gets serious psychological trauma. He is unsure of himself, preprogrammed to fail all their actions.
The child will constantly compare themselves to others and seeing the superiority of others, fall into despair. preschool children need praise and often exaggerated. Do not be afraid to instill pride in the child, to praise for good deeds and qualities.
Praise and flattery - two different things. It was the last to be feared. You may also want to talk to children about pride. Pride - a mortal sin, it is necessary to explain to the child. He should understand that pride is contrary to God.
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