"I do not get!". The long road to a wanted pregnancy

This is a tragedy: you finally have matured, they decided had "artillery preparation". It seems that everything should work. And ... nothing. Once, twice, third, fifth ... I do not get! New life in not in its infancy.

What should I do? In my environment the number of couples who conceive a baby was not immediately frightens and depresses. I know through what they went through many dark feelings and emotions through much of their lives was necessary and unnecessary thoughts, doubts, unanswered questions, prayers, and pitiful looks into the eyes of doctors ...

Here is the story of my colleagues, Julia. She "happened" - after three years of fruitless attempts. Unlike many contemporaries, who think that they still have yet to come, Julia did not delay the birth of the baby "for later" and after a few months after the wedding, my husband suggested "start to make the child" . She was then 23 years old. Life has shown that Julia wisely, attended to the question of the progeny of such a tender age .

Because from the moment of her desire to become a mother before his incarnation was, like I said, not a long year. Yes, Julia was among those who could not conceive of any first attempt, or the twenty-first. She trampled more than one pair of shoes, wandering in medical offices. And everywhere they've heard different, sometimes opposing views.

Have been handed over all the possible and impossible tests, carried out all possible and impossible test. And when they were with her ​​husband solemnly declared that they were both completely healthy, no joy in this news did not bring.